TODAY's GUEST IS Kenneth Play!

Kenneth Play on Mastering Sexual Confidence and Connection

Today’s guest is Kenneth Play, a world-renowned sex expert, educator, and author of Beyond Satisfied, known for his revolutionary “sex hacking” approach. Named “the world’s greatest sex hacker” by GQ, Kenneth has been featured across major media outlets, including The New York Times, Men’s Health, and Cosmopolitan, helping millions gain sexual confidence and skills that transform relationships.

Kenneth’s journey from overcoming his own insecurities as an Asian immigrant to becoming a trusted authority in sexual education has been inspiring. His work, combining academic research, Tantra, and experiential learning from BDSM and underground communities, has led to game-changing insights for men and women.

His latest book, Beyond Satisfied, delivers actionable techniques based on science and real-world experience, helping men develop lifelong skills to enhance connection, confidence, and intimacy. More than just basic advice, Beyond Satisfied applies a Bruce Lee-style mixed approach to sexual mastery, blending the essentials with advanced techniques that can bring your connection with a partner to a whole new level.

In this episode, Kenneth shares:

  • How to overcome performance anxiety like an elite athlete
  • Practical steps to fulfill her fantasies by understanding her erotic mind
  • Techniques to curate a 90-minute orgasmic experience
  • Tips for satisfying your partner with any size and building confidence
  • Insights on helping your partner experience new levels of pleasure

Listen to the full episode here and explore Kenneth’s course, Sex Hacker Pro, or grab a copy of his groundbreaking book.

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KEY POINTS, Links & Actions

Here are some key points that I would advise you to concentrate on

      • Sex is a skill that can be learnt, just like any other skillset. No one is born better, you just need to build on your skill level.
      • The best sex comes from a focus on what your partner is experiencing and enjoys.
      • Better sex can lead to a better connection with one another.
      • Kenneth felt his own internal shame when he started his own sexual journey, worried about his dyslexia, his penis size etc, and more. Stop belittling what you bring to the partnership, no matter the label you put on it, and give all of yourself to the other person or people and through true connection, the sex becomes so much better.
      • Women aren’t complaining about the size of men’s dicks, they are complaining about how they use it!
      • Statistically most penis fit most vaginas.”
      • We are not taught the techniques of sex or how to pleasure one another, sex ed only really focuses on the reproduction side of things. We need a cultural shift to teach people that pleasure is enjoyable and should be shared.
      • Sex is an emotional act, not just a physical act.

     

     
     
     
     
     
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      • Watching porn to be a better lover is like watching the ‘Fast and the Furious’ to be a better driver“. “There is a lot of difference between the meta verse and the real world.”
      • You are prioritizing her wellness” when you talk about consent and follow the rules.
      • Most of the filthiest fantasies are written by women” … their erotica really lets you see an insight into the type of sex and connection that women want in their life.
      • Guys want to have a competitive advantage” so why not use such an amazing resource like Kenneth’s book to learn the tactics to blow her mind during sex, and connect with her on a level that no one else ever has!
      • Women respond to pressure better than friction, if you understand the fundamental principle of how orgasm works, and you edge her all the way there, you can learn how to unlock any lock (her orgasms) with your key (your penis!).
      • You can see in how someone is breathing, in the changes in their micro-expressions to see how someone is enjoying something.
      • You have to learn how to feel  and the feeling is not just feeling her but also your own body.” You need to listen to her sounds, the subtle change in her face, her body, her muscles etc.

     

     
     
     
     
     
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    • By showing her that you care and will pay attention, is mind-blowing to a partner, that you are not just out for your own needs, but want to share the pleasure and experience truly with each other.
    • … the mutual pleasure is so mind-blowing  and guys under-estimate (so much) that it is like they are trying to steal a snack when they could have the restaurant“.
    • Everyone doubts themselves, but top tier experts, feel the fear, and do it anyway. The fear will always be there, name it, tell it ‘not today’ and go for it.
    • After-care is one of the key things that you need to incorporate into your sex life, to connect and bond with one another.
    • There is a beautiful balance between selfishness and selflessness in sex … it is a dance between the two … it is a flow of the energy between the two“.
    • It all comes down to more than what you say is how you behave like what you do“.
    • Women are very good at being able to identify when you are not being truthful, so stop lying, be honest, and open and go for.
    • Create a play-lab, somewhere you can have sex, learn, grow, try new things and experiment and become a more skilled and connected lover.
    • Gauging arousal is like being a successful comedians, who tells a joke and feels the mood and emotion of the room, to see how things are working and not just tell a joke and not check if anyone laughed! So why would you do the same for the things you are doing in bed (etc) with a partner?!
    • Sex has a lot of levels that you can improve on: incl foreplay, oral, anal, fingering etc.
    • It is not a slap in the face of your masculinity to admit you can be better in bed. Why give up using an amazing resource like this and level up your sex life. Most women do not want to have to teach you how to be better in bed, so why not let an expert like Kenneth teach you how to level up quickly in all areas of sex!

 

 
 
 
 
 
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  • Treat sex and her pleasure like taking her to a restaurant, you wouldn’t expect her to be happy with going there and not getting her meal, so why would you expect her to be happy
  • Spend 15 minutes working on a technique each time, to keep leveling up your overall sex life, and aim to get better at least 1% in each area each time!

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I’m a podcaster who interviews great examples of people to discuss and highlight the methods, hacks, tips and procedures you can use in your own life to help you develop and better your life. I would definitely not consider myself an expert, so to improve, I ask them and action it in my own life! My personal journey has been marked by awkwardness and awesomeness, OCD and ‘OMG’. I have suffered with depression, shyness, unhappiness and lack of focus and motivation so I know what’s it like to feel lost and hopeless. Back then, I wished I had a podcast to listen to and find actual fixes and concrete action steps and not just unobtainable suggestions and promotion of their products but couldn’t find it … so I made my own!
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